A good marriage doesn’t simply depend on love and ample wealth. It also includes two truly understanding partners. Any mistake can actually sabotage this beautiful relationship in a drastic way. Unfortunately while some of these mistakes can be quite serious, some of them are actually quite simple that can act like slow poison, thus letting your marriage wane away gradually.
Irrespective if you are a husband or a wife reading this post, don’t miss checking out these 9 mistakes that almost every married man needs to stop doing ASAP.
1. Prioritizing Cricket Than Family
Cricket is not more important than your family. Being a fan and being a father or hsuband are simply two different things. The sooner you realize this, the better it is, not just for you but also for your family. So try ditching the former and check out the priceless smile on your little angel.
2. Watching porn
A marriage is basically focuses on monogamy not just physically but also mentally; something that porn actually violates by desensitizing you from real intimacy. Instead of glaring on screens, try building stronger sexual intimacy.
3. Sulking when the wife is talking
Building a lasting marriage is not again about being physical or romantic every now and then. It also includes a conscious effort to stay connected in the best possible ways. Sulking or zoning out when your wife is discussing or conversing with you is actually a major sign that can show you aren’t interested in her. Stop that right now and be fully present.
4. Being angry on kids for things you too do
Kids will remember what their father practically do instead of those what their fathers say. Instead of cursing them or telling them to control their temper, try practicing the same on yourself.
5. Glaring on other women
NO, NO and a big NO! This can be one of the worst signs that can show that you actually disrespect your wife. Quite like #2, checking out other women, especially in public also leads you to objectify women. So, the next time you step out, make sure you have a complete control over your eyes and head.
6. Forgetting or missing wearing wedding ring
Your ring is the sign to the other women if you are available or not. It is actually one of the things that many women check out when they meet you and that can show your level of commitment. So, keep wearing it as often as possible.
7. Giving your wife all the leftovers
Your job and hobbies are important. But your wife is more important than them. In the effort to offer the best of everything to your family, most of the men tend to give their wives the least time or rather the leftovers. Keep working hard to give your family a healthy lifestyle but keep working harder to make your family happier.
8. Staring more on your phone than on your kids & wife
Giving more importance to your phone can actually be destructive in multiple ways. Not only it reduces your family time but also creates unfillable rifts. Shut down your phone as soon as you reach home and try spending time with your family.
9. Expecting your wife for every household chore
Studies have actually shown that even in homes where both husband and wives work as full-timers, it is the women who share more workload when it comes to household stuff. Guys, it’s high time to understand that she is your wife, not a maid. Step up and help her.